(BEST WAYS NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN)
1* It’s in the interest of some people to hurt the feelings of others. To yield not to it, conveniently curtain it off, turn a blind eye and put out of sight so that it would not bother you. (the eye sees only what the mind is prepared to comprehend -Robertson Davies).
Remember to live in the present and turn blind eye to people causing you harm, ignore them and save yourself the trouble of getting hurt, believing God will choose who or those that are worthy to be by your side.
2* “Put back your pieces differently “. You may hear of all the awful words used on you behind your back. The best way to not get your heart broken is to pretend you do not have one.
Cover your ears in pretense even when you have heard it all, behave as though, whatever you heard is completely a normal ‘situation’….. Move along.
3* Others will judge you incorrectly or will never approve of you. Even when you do your best or everything to help them understand and reverse their opinion about you, they still would not allow.
Some people are just plain unreasonable and were created to believe a lie. Do not waste your breath or time trying to explain yourself to them. Just keep mute…. They are not worth your explanation.
PS: SILENCE IS GOLDEN …..
You cannot control someone else’s behavior….
You can only control your own reaction…..